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Limitless Living: Embracing Godly Boundaries

In a world where relationships often struggle due to unspoken expectations, one crucial element stands out: boundaries. Through reflection and growth, I’ve come to realize the importance of setting clear, respectful boundaries in every aspect of life, especially in marriage. I now understand that boundaries are not just rules but acts of love, care, and respect. As the head of the household, it is my responsibility to set these boundaries, seeking guidance from God and His Word to ensure they align with His will. By doing so, I not only strengthen my relationship with my wife but also create a peaceful, orderly home that honors both God and the love we share. This journey of repentance, forgiveness, and transformation has shown me the power of living within the structure of godly boundaries, and the peace that follows is immeasurable. I encourage all men to step up, seek God’s direction, and set boundaries that empower your family to thrive in faith, love, and abundance.

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Financial Love Affair

As Valentine’s Day approaches, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the relationships that shape our lives, including the one we have with our finances. Just as we nurture our romantic bonds, cultivating a lasting connection with our money is key to ensuring a stable and prosperous future. Communication plays a vital role—regularly discussing financial goals and habits with loved ones can align your efforts and create a shared vision. Trust in your ability to make informed decisions, seek advice when needed, and celebrate financial milestones along the way. By prioritizing open communication, trust, and celebration, you can build a strong financial foundation that leads to long-term security for you and your family. This Valentine’s Day, show love to your finances, and commit to a prosperous future.

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Triumphing Over Temptation

Overcoming bad habits is often a challenging journey, but the key to true success lies in understanding that we rarely overcome the hardest challenges on our own. When we fight for ourselves alone, it can lead to pride, and ultimately, self-sabotage. We tend to act in ways that we think are best for us, but without considering how it affects others. True growth happens when we fight for something greater than ourselves—when we fight for others, especially for love.

Think of addiction as trying to empty a glass of dirty water. No matter how many times you pour it out, it will eventually refill. The solution isn’t to keep emptying the glass, but to fill it with something clean. Like my mom, who spent 30 years trying to quit smoking. She kept quitting, failing again and again, until one day she realized her addiction was harming her children. It was then that she quit for them, and in doing so, she found the strength to quit for herself.

This is the power of love. It doesn’t fail, even in the toughest battles. As love perseveres, addiction starves. When you fall, get up, repent, and keep moving forward. Slow and steady wins the race, and no matter how long it takes, you will eventually conquer. Love is the key, and with faith, prayer, and support, you can transform your life, step by step. You are not alone, and you are loved. Keep quitting, and one day, you will never start again.

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Cultural Continuity: The Power of Boundaries in Armenian Christian Tradition

In the heart of Armenian culture, where faith, tradition, and community intertwine, the practice of setting boundaries has always been a cornerstone of both personal and familial life. With Christianity as the foundation of our national identity, Armenian households became sanctuaries of spiritual devotion, where the teachings of Christ were passed down from generation to generation. Parents instilled in their children the understanding that the home is a sacred space—one that must be protected through clear boundaries that reflect love, compassion, and respect for others. Just as Jesus Christ exemplified the importance of setting boundaries while maintaining empathy and selflessness, Armenian parents taught that the boundaries within our homes should protect our values and promote kindness, humility, and service to others. These boundaries are not only essential for personal well-being but also serve to preserve cultural identity and continuity across generations. In a world where cultural assimilation threatens our ancestral heritage, these boundaries help keep the richness of our Armenian and Black roots alive, ensuring that we pass down a legacy of faith, love, and integrity to our children.

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The Best Gift This Holiday? Simply Showing Up

The holiday season is traditionally seen as a time for giving, often associated with gifts, sales, and the experiences we share with loved ones. However, for many, the reality of financial strain can bring about anxiety, making it difficult to embrace the spirit of generosity. Despite a strong national economy, many Americans still feel disconnected from that prosperity. However, giving doesn’t have to be tied to material wealth. I was reminded of this recently when I received heartfelt check-ins from friends and family after the election. Their simple gestures of love and concern inspired me to give back by reaching out to others, rekindling connections and offering support. This holiday season, I encourage you to show up for the people you care about—your presence, attention, and love might be the best gift they receive. Giving is about more than spending money; it’s about the value we bring through genuine care and connection.

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10 Ways To Show Appreciation

Family plays a vital role in our lives, offering us emotional support, a sense of belonging, and physical strength. Sometimes, we take them for granted, forgetting how precious their presence is in our day-to-day lives. Whether it’s a traditional family or a chosen family of friends bound by love, the connection we share with those closest to us is a blessing. They’re there to celebrate our victories, provide comfort during tough times, and help us grow into the people we are meant to be.

Taking a moment to express gratitude for family can deepen our relationships and strengthen the bond we share. Simple acts like sending a text to check in, planning a game night, or reflecting on shared memories can make all the difference. Gratitude helps us appreciate not just the big moments, but the everyday acts of love and care that sometimes go unnoticed. Whether through words, actions, or quality time together, acknowledging our family’s importance reminds us of the value of connection, unity, and interdependence.

Family is a blessing that shapes us in ways we may not even realize—reminding us that even through imperfections, the love we share is always worth celebrating.

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The Challenge to Heal

In life, we often face immense challenges that seem insurmountable—whether it’s dealing with personal trauma, navigating through difficult relationships, or overcoming deep emotional wounds. The road to healing can feel long and overwhelming, yet it is one of the most transformative journeys we can undertake.

Jennifer Triana, a mother of three and entrepreneur, shares her powerful story of resilience. After enduring childhood trauma, the death of her father, and a painful divorce in 2019, Jennifer’s determination to heal for her children and herself became the catalyst for remarkable change. With relentless effort, she paid off debts, set goals, and made her dream of homeownership a reality. Not only did she buy her first home, but she also turned it into a profitable investment, proving that healing, though challenging, can lead to profound success.

Her story is a reminder that no matter the pain or obstacles, we can rise from the murkiness of life’s challenges and bloom like a lotus, stronger and more beautiful than ever. Healing is not only possible; it’s essential, and the rewards are worth the work.

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‘Tis the Season to Serve

The holiday season is often filled with joy, connection, and gratitude, but it can also bring about pressure, especially when we start expecting things from others. Instead of focusing on what we might receive, imagine how different the season could be if we approached it with a heart wide open, focused on giving and serving others. The true beauty of the holidays lies not in the gifts we receive but in the love we give—without expecting anything in return. Whether it’s surprising a neighbor with a homemade meal, lending an ear to a friend, or simply offering kindness, we can find joy in the act of giving freely. This holiday season, let’s focus on serving with love and humility, discovering that the greatest gift isn’t what’s under the tree, but the peace and joy we experience when we give from the heart.

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