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Fixing My Commitment Compass

Growing up, I’ve always been a bubbly, outgoing girl who loves having fun and trying new things. But something happened recently that made me take a hard look at my life and the decisions I’ve been making. My teacher pulled me aside one day and pointed out that I had a habit of starting things and never finishing them. I’d get super excited about a new project or hobby, but then I’d lose interest and move on to something else. She told me this lack of commitment was holding me back.

At first, I didn’t want to hear it. But then I realized something: I was doing exactly what I saw my parents doing. My parents are great, but they often struggle with commitment. They’d start diets and quit, or make big plans and never follow through. It was like a light bulb went off in my head. I was picking up the same habits that I didn’t like seeing in them!

That realization was a game-changer for me. I knew I had to change these habits immediately if I didn’t want to bring them into my future. I want to be someone my kids can look up to one day, and I don’t want them to struggle with commitment like I did.

Even if we don’t have the best examples at home, it’s crucial for us kids to understand the importance of commitment. We need to learn to stay dedicated to our goals and responsibilities. This will help us build trust and achieve our dreams. Commitment is the key to becoming reliable and successful in whatever we choose to do.

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Built to Last: The Unseen Strength Behind StrongHome’s Success

Building StrongHome has been one of the most rewarding yet challenging seasons of our lives. From launching podcasts and producing a monthly magazine to securing sponsors and planning community events, the workload has been immense. Balancing all of this with personal and family responsibilities is no small feat. But what keeps us moving forward is resilience — the ability to rise after setbacks, adapt to unexpected challenges, and keep pushing toward the vision God has given us.

Resilience transforms overwhelming tasks into manageable steps. It’s what allows us to see obstacles as opportunities for growth. Through faith, gratitude, and self-care, we’ve cultivated the strength to stay focused and grounded in the midst of chaos. With resilience, we thrive, not just survive.

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Mirror of Personal Growth

Marriage, as designed by God, is meant to reflect the profound relationship between Christ and the church. It serves as a mirror, helping us see both the beauty and flaws within ourselves through the eyes of our spouse. In the unity and intimacy of marriage, we are challenged to embrace reflection rather than deflection. By accepting our spouse’s input and recognizing them as a powerful resource for growth, we learn to adjust, improve, and strengthen our relationship. Though uncomfortable at times, this process of self-awareness and change is essential to deepening our connection and fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage.

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Work Addiction: A Silent Struggle

Today in California, with perfect weather and endless possibilities, I find myself trapped in a cycle of work addiction. Despite the beautiful day, I’m focused on completing a project instead of spending time with my family or taking care of myself. Work addiction, like any other, is a compulsive behavior that negatively impacts your health, relationships, and well-being. Over time, it leads to burnout and missed moments with loved ones. To break this cycle, I’m committing to a balanced approach—prioritizing my health, family, and personal time. This is my goal for the next few months, and I encourage you to join me in making self-care and balance a priority. Life’s precious moments are too important to overlook.

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The Heart to Heal

As we step into 2024, it’s an opportunity for renewal and growth. Reflecting on the challenges of 2023, which brought unexpected surgeries and emotional healing for both me and Jeff, we’ve emerged stronger. Now, we’re ready to face the new year with resilience and optimism. Alongside this personal growth, I’m thrilled to share that the StrongHome Network has launched a podcast series, offering resources to strengthen families. Let’s embrace this new year as a canvas for growth, where every challenge becomes an opportunity to thrive, learn, and improve together as a community.

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Responding To “Who Are You?”

In the pursuit of self-discovery, women often find themselves navigating through layers of societal roles and expectations. From being defined by family titles to taking on multiple responsibilities, it can be easy to lose sight of who we truly are beyond these external labels. The question “Who are you?” frequently triggers responses tied to what we do—mother, wife, professional—leaving the core of our identity untouched. This tendency can fuel feelings of imposter syndrome, as we measure ourselves against societal standards or compare ourselves to others.

However, the journey toward a deeper understanding of self requires intentional moments of reflection, away from the roles we play and the demands of daily life. By carving out time for introspection, engaging in activities that bring joy, and seeking support through therapy or coaching, women can uncover their true essence. Redefining identity is a process that empowers us to see ourselves beyond expectations and embrace a life driven by authenticity and purpose. Instead of relying on titles, we can learn to define ourselves with clarity, grounded in our passions, values, and unique experiences. This exploration of self leads to a more fulfilling, empowered existence, where our worth is no longer measured by what we do, but by who we are.

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Limits for Peace: The Secret Sauce for a Happy Home and Heart

Setting boundaries is one of the most empowering acts of self-care, yet it often feels like an emotional rollercoaster. While we all know the importance of boundaries in maintaining our mental health and thriving relationships, nobody really talks about the tough moments that come with enforcing them. From the guilt of saying no to loved ones to the heartache of ending toxic friendships, sticking to our boundaries can be a challenge. However, it’s crucial to remember that these boundaries are not walls but doors to a healthier, happier life. By prioritizing ourselves and standing firm, we teach others to do the same, creating a ripple effect of empowerment and respect in our communities. So, embrace your inner boundary boss—it’s tough, but it’s so worth it!

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Hey Strong Fams

Over the years, I’ve grown more graceful in how I interact with others, extending patience and kindness even in moments I once deemed “undeserving.” Reflecting on my own need for grace in the past, I’ve learned to offer it freely—out of love and a desire to inspire change. This holiday season, let’s give the priceless gift of grace: forgive a parent, offer a second chance to a spouse, or extend mercy to a child while setting boundaries. Love and forgive as we’ve been forgiven. Happy Giving!

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Commitment & Consistency

Four years, Fam! Can you believe it? The StrongHome Network is turning four, and if I am being incredibly transparent, most times it just feels like a whirlwind of paperwork, tax filings, relationship building, deal negotiating, juggling job titles, grant writing, damage control, preventative measures, and countless hours of figuring out new things. Seriously, it’s

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