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Her Side: Breaking Bad Habits – s01e07

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Join hosts Melissa and Paulette for a powerful episode of HerSide, featuring special guest Coach Lily. This week, we’re tackling the common bad habits that many women struggle with, from imposter syndrome to neglecting self-care. We’ll discuss how we often fail to give ourselves credit, skip basic self-care routines like brushing our teeth because we dive straight into work, and constantly compare ourselves to others.

Coach Lily shares insights on breaking free from these habits, emphasizing the importance of accountability from those close to us, and engaging in soul-searching and self-reflection. We’ll explore how lashing out or blaming others can prevent us from growing and becoming better versions of ourselves.

As we celebrate Independence and Freedom Month this July, let’s focus on breaking free from these bad habits. Tune in to learn practical strategies and empower yourself to live a healthier, more self-aware life.

Don’t miss this inspiring conversation on self-improvement and personal growth. Subscribe now and join the discussion on breaking bad habits, women’s empowerment, overcoming imposter syndrome, and achieving self-care and wellness.

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Health Habits: From Bad to Better

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Breaking bad habits around diet and lifestyle can lead to life-changing results. After a difficult conversation with my primary care physician, I was determined to lower my A1C naturally, without medication like Ozempic or Metformin. Through prayer, reflection, and intentional lifestyle changes, I reduced my A1C from 9.5 to 5.8 within a year.

The key steps included cutting out sugars, embracing clean eating, and staying active despite working remotely. I also leaned heavily on my faith, incorporating prayer and fasting into my routine. This spiritual focus strengthened my commitment to healthier habits, leading to a 20-pound weight loss and overall better health. This journey has shown me the power of faith, discipline, and intentional action in breaking bad habits and creating a more fulfilling life.

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Trigger Tracking: Achieving Measurable Goals

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Breaking bad habits is essential for personal growth and well-being, but it requires intentional effort and patience. Start by identifying your triggers—those emotional, social, or environmental cues that prompt unwanted behaviors. Set clear, measurable goals to track your progress, and replace harmful habits with healthier alternatives. Positive reinforcement, such as small rewards, can keep you motivated along the way. Seek support from loved ones or professionals to stay accountable, and practice self-compassion through setbacks. Remember, lasting change takes time. With persistence and the right mindset, each step you take brings you closer to becoming a better version of yourself.

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Triumphing Over Temptation

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Overcoming bad habits is often a challenging journey, but the key to true success lies in understanding that we rarely overcome the hardest challenges on our own. When we fight for ourselves alone, it can lead to pride, and ultimately, self-sabotage. We tend to act in ways that we think are best for us, but without considering how it affects others. True growth happens when we fight for something greater than ourselves—when we fight for others, especially for love.

Think of addiction as trying to empty a glass of dirty water. No matter how many times you pour it out, it will eventually refill. The solution isn’t to keep emptying the glass, but to fill it with something clean. Like my mom, who spent 30 years trying to quit smoking. She kept quitting, failing again and again, until one day she realized her addiction was harming her children. It was then that she quit for them, and in doing so, she found the strength to quit for herself.

This is the power of love. It doesn’t fail, even in the toughest battles. As love perseveres, addiction starves. When you fall, get up, repent, and keep moving forward. Slow and steady wins the race, and no matter how long it takes, you will eventually conquer. Love is the key, and with faith, prayer, and support, you can transform your life, step by step. You are not alone, and you are loved. Keep quitting, and one day, you will never start again.

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Got Bad Habits? No Worries, There Is GOOD NEWS

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Here’s a powerful insight: the habit of not making your bed in the morning, while seemingly harmless, can have a ripple effect on your success. Bad habits, though unconscious, can negatively impact your health, relationships, and personal growth. But here’s the good news: these habits can be broken and replaced, starting right now! To do so, begin by identifying your patterns. Acknowledge the issue out loud, reflect on your role in situations, and pinpoint the triggers that lead to certain behaviors. Once you understand your habits, create healthier alternatives and take consistent action. By repeating positive behaviors, you’ll transform your life—one habit at a time. It’s all about upgrading your mindset and creating lasting change!

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Mastering Your “Follow-Through” Breaking the Habit of Breaking Your Word

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Breaking the bad habit of not keeping your word is a crucial step in mastering both your personal and professional life. It’s about understanding that your word is your brand, and just like in business, your reputation depends on the integrity you uphold. To break this cycle, you must approach it with an entrepreneurial mindset, starting with a clear vision of what honoring your commitments looks like. Build a system—whether it’s using a planner to track promises or setting reminders—so that accountability becomes a natural part of your daily routine. Sharing your goals with a trusted mentor or friend helps to keep you on track, providing honest feedback and encouragement. Ultimately, breaking this habit isn’t just about discipline; it’s about aligning your actions with your values and goals, making your word a reflection of your true self. By continuously improving and adjusting your approach, you can rebuild trust and integrity in both your personal and professional life.

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Work Addiction: A Silent Struggle

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Today in California, with perfect weather and endless possibilities, I find myself trapped in a cycle of work addiction. Despite the beautiful day, I’m focused on completing a project instead of spending time with my family or taking care of myself. Work addiction, like any other, is a compulsive behavior that negatively impacts your health, relationships, and well-being. Over time, it leads to burnout and missed moments with loved ones. To break this cycle, I’m committing to a balanced approach—prioritizing my health, family, and personal time. This is my goal for the next few months, and I encourage you to join me in making self-care and balance a priority. Life’s precious moments are too important to overlook.

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Resilient Without Him

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Today, on Father’s Day, I want to speak to those who, like me, have never had a conversation with their biological fathers. While this day can stir emotions of loss and unanswered questions, it’s essential to recognize that your worth is not defined by absence. You are resilient, valuable, and surrounded by love in many forms—whether from family, friends, or mentors. Love isn’t confined to biology. Your journey, shaped by strength and self-discovery, holds the power to inspire others. So today, honor your path, celebrate your growth, and remember: you are more than enough.

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The Art of “I AM” Harnessing the Power of Affirmation for Identity

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The words “I AM” carry immense power, shaping how we define ourselves and how the world perceives us. When we say “I am angry” or “I am sad,” we’re not merely describing feelings; we’re affirming who we are in that moment. These words can either empower us or limit us, shaping our identity based on what we choose to claim. Our identities are often formed in childhood by the words and actions of those around us, absorbing lessons and values from family and culture. But as we grow, we gain the ability to reshape who we are by what we choose to affirm about ourselves. For those of us with mixed heritage, this process of self-definition is even more complex, as we navigate a world that often wants to label us, but we ultimately decide who we are. Through exploration, learning, and experience, we can embrace our multifaceted selves. It’s through the simple yet profound declaration of “I am” that we can authentically express our true identity, embracing all the worlds that make us whole.

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Confidently Shaping Self-Concepts

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Identity is a powerful force that shapes every aspect of who we are and how we interact with the world around us. It is the deep-rooted understanding of ourselves, formed through memories, experiences, relationships, and values, and influences how we behave, think, and perceive others. Often, we look to external sources—like what people say, what we own, or what we do—to define our worth. However, true identity transcends these surface-level markers. It is built from a foundation of self-awareness and is nurtured through the relationships we form, particularly in our formative years.

In understanding who we are, we can begin to recognize the deep influence of our upbringing, especially parenting. The voices of those around us—whether positive or negative—play a significant role in shaping our perceptions and, consequently, our identity. But it’s crucial to remember that identity is not solely defined by external factors; it is also rooted in a spiritual understanding. As John 15:16 beautifully states, we are chosen by the Creator and appointed to live with purpose and impact, long before we begin making moves in the world. When we embrace this truth, we find a deep sense of belonging, love, and worth that is independent of our actions, possessions, or the opinions of others. This revolutionary perspective shifts our identity from a mere reflection of external influences to a powerful realization of who we are at our core.

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