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Ignite Your Purpose and Dominate Your Year

In a world that often encourages us to focus on perceived flaws, it’s easy to fall into the trap of critiquing our own appearance. We begin the day by zeroing in on the areas we’d like to change, whether it’s our waistline, the fine lines on our face, or those little imperfections we wish could disappear. However, what if we shifted our mindset? Instead of starting the day with self-criticism, let’s begin with gratitude for our bodies. Every day, our bodies do incredible things—things we often take for granted, like moving, breathing, and healing. This November, let’s choose to celebrate the strength, mobility, and resilience that we often overlook, acknowledging the everyday blessings of our health and fitness. Whether it’s walking, playing, or simply feeling the sensation of touch, let’s take a moment to appreciate what our bodies do for us. After all, a positive body mindset starts with recognizing our worth, just as we are.

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Reflection: On Body Positivity and Gratitude

In a world that often encourages us to focus on perceived flaws, it’s easy to fall into the trap of critiquing our own appearance. We begin the day by zeroing in on the areas we’d like to change, whether it’s our waistline, the fine lines on our face, or those little imperfections we wish could disappear. However, what if we shifted our mindset? Instead of starting the day with self-criticism, let’s begin with gratitude for our bodies. Every day, our bodies do incredible things—things we often take for granted, like moving, breathing, and healing. This November, let’s choose to celebrate the strength, mobility, and resilience that we often overlook, acknowledging the everyday blessings of our health and fitness. Whether it’s walking, playing, or simply feeling the sensation of touch, let’s take a moment to appreciate what our bodies do for us. After all, a positive body mindset starts with recognizing our worth, just as we are.

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Wrestling Fear Head On: From Hiding to Thriving

Deflection often arises from a fear of facing uncomfortable situations, such as feelings of shame, embarrassment, or failure. As a pro wrestler, I’ve found myself avoiding confrontations, especially after a performance where things didn’t go as planned. I wanted to hide, but a conversation with a friend changed my perspective. She encouraged me not to dwell but to face the situation head-on with a plan. This shift in mindset helped me overcome my fear and move forward with confidence. The next time you feel the urge to deflect, take a moment to confront the discomfort, prepare for what could go wrong, and move forward with a solid plan. Don’t let fear hold you back—embrace it, face it, and grow stronger from it.

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Fear Not: Deflection & the Fear of Accountability

Deflection and the fear of accountability often go hand in hand, as avoiding responsibility can feel less threatening than facing uncomfortable truths. Overcoming this fear requires introspection, honesty, and self-awareness. By embracing acceptance, taking ownership of our actions, and reflecting on our thoughts and behaviors, we can break free from deflection. Practicing empathy, seeking feedback, and staying present in challenging situations helps us confront our fears and grow personally. Consistently applying these steps cultivates a mindset of accountability, which is essential for authentic self-growth and building meaningful relationships with others.

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Mirror of Personal Growth

Marriage, as designed by God, is meant to reflect the profound relationship between Christ and the church. It serves as a mirror, helping us see both the beauty and flaws within ourselves through the eyes of our spouse. In the unity and intimacy of marriage, we are challenged to embrace reflection rather than deflection. By accepting our spouse’s input and recognizing them as a powerful resource for growth, we learn to adjust, improve, and strengthen our relationship. Though uncomfortable at times, this process of self-awareness and change is essential to deepening our connection and fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage.

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From Fear to Faith: Rediscovering God

Starting something new begins with trusting God and facing our true selves—the good, the bad, and everything in between. God calls us to confront our truths with Him, not out of fear, but with faith. By aligning ourselves with God’s Word and reflecting His image, we can grow in trust and face the challenges in our lives. When we see God as a loving Father who comforts us, we embrace a deeper faith that helps us overcome doubt and fear. Trusting in His plan allows us to move forward with confidence and belief in His promises. As we pray, reflect, and believe, we grow closer to His love and truth.

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Facing the Silence: How Confronting Myself Made Me a Stronger Entrepreneur

As an entrepreneur, the hustle often keeps me moving—meetings, decisions, and constant growth. Yet, in rare moments of silence, I realize I’m deflecting, not from the world, but from facing myself. The fear of confronting my vulnerabilities—doubts, insecurities, and failures—often drives me to focus outwardly on metrics and trends rather than looking inward. But when I finally stop deflecting and face myself with courage, I discover an unexpected strength. It’s in those moments of self-awareness that I find greater clarity, creativity, and peace, fueling my leadership and business growth. Confronting my fears has made me a stronger, more fulfilled leader, and I challenge you to do the same.

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Her Side: Breaking Bad Habits – s01e07

Join hosts Melissa and Paulette for a powerful episode of HerSide, featuring special guest Coach Lily. This week, we’re tackling the common bad habits that many women struggle with, from imposter syndrome to neglecting self-care. We’ll discuss how we often fail to give ourselves credit, skip basic self-care routines like brushing our teeth because we dive straight into work, and constantly compare ourselves to others.

Coach Lily shares insights on breaking free from these habits, emphasizing the importance of accountability from those close to us, and engaging in soul-searching and self-reflection. We’ll explore how lashing out or blaming others can prevent us from growing and becoming better versions of ourselves.

As we celebrate Independence and Freedom Month this July, let’s focus on breaking free from these bad habits. Tune in to learn practical strategies and empower yourself to live a healthier, more self-aware life.

Don’t miss this inspiring conversation on self-improvement and personal growth. Subscribe now and join the discussion on breaking bad habits, women’s empowerment, overcoming imposter syndrome, and achieving self-care and wellness.

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Got Bad Habits? No Worries, There Is GOOD NEWS

Here’s a powerful insight: the habit of not making your bed in the morning, while seemingly harmless, can have a ripple effect on your success. Bad habits, though unconscious, can negatively impact your health, relationships, and personal growth. But here’s the good news: these habits can be broken and replaced, starting right now! To do so, begin by identifying your patterns. Acknowledge the issue out loud, reflect on your role in situations, and pinpoint the triggers that lead to certain behaviors. Once you understand your habits, create healthier alternatives and take consistent action. By repeating positive behaviors, you’ll transform your life—one habit at a time. It’s all about upgrading your mindset and creating lasting change!

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Resilient Without Him

Today, on Father’s Day, I want to speak to those who, like me, have never had a conversation with their biological fathers. While this day can stir emotions of loss and unanswered questions, it’s essential to recognize that your worth is not defined by absence. You are resilient, valuable, and surrounded by love in many forms—whether from family, friends, or mentors. Love isn’t confined to biology. Your journey, shaped by strength and self-discovery, holds the power to inspire others. So today, honor your path, celebrate your growth, and remember: you are more than enough.

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