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Volume 36

Wrestling Fear Head On: From Hiding to Thriving

Deflection often arises from a fear of facing uncomfortable situations, such as feelings of shame, embarrassment, or failure. As a pro wrestler, I’ve found myself avoiding confrontations, especially after a performance where things didn’t go as planned. I wanted to hide, but a conversation with a friend changed my perspective. She encouraged me not to dwell but to face the situation head-on with a plan. This shift in mindset helped me overcome my fear and move forward with confidence. The next time you feel the urge to deflect, take a moment to confront the discomfort, prepare for what could go wrong, and move forward with a solid plan. Don’t let fear hold you back—embrace it, face it, and grow stronger from it.

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From Guilt to Glory: Rediscovering Yourself While Nurturing Your Family

As a wife and mother of three, I understand how easy it is to pour all your energy into your family, often leaving little room for your own dreams. Nurturing our families is vital, but it doesn’t have to be our only role. Rediscovering who you are beyond your roles as a wife and mother allows you to embrace your own passions and ambitions. By honoring your dreams, you not only model self-worth for your family but also create a life that feels fulfilled and purposeful.

When I embarked on this journey of rediscovery, I faced feelings of guilt and doubt. I questioned whether I could truly balance being a great wife, mother, and pursuing my own goals. But I decided to do it anyway. Today, my passion for motivational speaking has come to life, inspiring other women to believe in themselves and face their fears. The result? Not only have I become a more fulfilled person, but my family has grown closer, and we’ve made priceless memories together. Reigniting your dreams can transform your life and strengthen your family bond. It’s never too late to chase what’s possible for you.

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Fear Not: Deflection & the Fear of Accountability

Deflection and the fear of accountability often go hand in hand, as avoiding responsibility can feel less threatening than facing uncomfortable truths. Overcoming this fear requires introspection, honesty, and self-awareness. By embracing acceptance, taking ownership of our actions, and reflecting on our thoughts and behaviors, we can break free from deflection. Practicing empathy, seeking feedback, and staying present in challenging situations helps us confront our fears and grow personally. Consistently applying these steps cultivates a mindset of accountability, which is essential for authentic self-growth and building meaningful relationships with others.

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Mirror of Personal Growth

Marriage, as designed by God, is meant to reflect the profound relationship between Christ and the church. It serves as a mirror, helping us see both the beauty and flaws within ourselves through the eyes of our spouse. In the unity and intimacy of marriage, we are challenged to embrace reflection rather than deflection. By accepting our spouse’s input and recognizing them as a powerful resource for growth, we learn to adjust, improve, and strengthen our relationship. Though uncomfortable at times, this process of self-awareness and change is essential to deepening our connection and fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage.

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From Fear to Faith: Rediscovering God

Starting something new begins with trusting God and facing our true selves—the good, the bad, and everything in between. God calls us to confront our truths with Him, not out of fear, but with faith. By aligning ourselves with God’s Word and reflecting His image, we can grow in trust and face the challenges in our lives. When we see God as a loving Father who comforts us, we embrace a deeper faith that helps us overcome doubt and fear. Trusting in His plan allows us to move forward with confidence and belief in His promises. As we pray, reflect, and believe, we grow closer to His love and truth.

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Face Your Finances! Your Debt Wont Just Disappear

This is your sign to stop deflecting and face your finances head-on. Whether it’s dealing with debt, improving your credit score, or simply taking control of your financial health, avoiding the issue will only make it worse. Fear and overwhelm can hold you back, but you’re not alone. By taking small, consistent actions like reviewing your credit score, creating a budget, and seeking professional guidance, you can rebuild your financial future. It takes time and effort, but with persistence, you can gain the financial freedom and peace of mind you deserve. The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll experience relief and confidence.

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Facing the Silence: How Confronting Myself Made Me a Stronger Entrepreneur

As an entrepreneur, the hustle often keeps me moving—meetings, decisions, and constant growth. Yet, in rare moments of silence, I realize I’m deflecting, not from the world, but from facing myself. The fear of confronting my vulnerabilities—doubts, insecurities, and failures—often drives me to focus outwardly on metrics and trends rather than looking inward. But when I finally stop deflecting and face myself with courage, I discover an unexpected strength. It’s in those moments of self-awareness that I find greater clarity, creativity, and peace, fueling my leadership and business growth. Confronting my fears has made me a stronger, more fulfilled leader, and I challenge you to do the same.

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