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Volume 32

Resilient Without Him

Today, on Father’s Day, I want to speak to those who, like me, have never had a conversation with their biological fathers. While this day can stir emotions of loss and unanswered questions, it’s essential to recognize that your worth is not defined by absence. You are resilient, valuable, and surrounded by love in many forms—whether from family, friends, or mentors. Love isn’t confined to biology. Your journey, shaped by strength and self-discovery, holds the power to inspire others. So today, honor your path, celebrate your growth, and remember: you are more than enough.

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How To Leave A Legacy With Essential Estate Planning Documents

This Father’s Day, honor your role as a dad by securing your family’s future through essential estate planning documents. A will, financial power of attorney, advance care directive, and living trust protect your legacy and ensure your loved ones are cared for in any situation. These documents cover critical areas such as asset distribution, guardianship for minors, financial management, and medical decisions. By creating or updating your estate plan, you provide lasting security and peace of mind for your family. Take the time to safeguard what matters most — your legacy as a father.

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When Superman Needs a Tune-Up

Fathers often juggle demanding careers and family commitments, which can take a toll on their physical and mental health. At ASD Wellness, we emphasize the importance of chiropractic care in helping fathers reset and rejuvenate their well-being. Regular chiropractic adjustments alleviate chronic pain, improve posture, and reduce stress by enhancing the body’s natural healing processes. With better spinal alignment and reduced discomfort, fathers can be more present and active in their family lives, leading healthier, more fulfilling lifestyles.

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From Ashes We Rise: A Family’s Legacy and Loss in the Altadena Fire

Fatherhood holds a profound influence, yet the experience of having a father varies greatly. Some have never known their fathers, while others have had inconsistent or emotionally distant relationships. These broken bonds can lead to resentment, acceptance of dysfunction, or simply a resigned “it is what it is” attitude.

However, true fatherhood is modeled by God, the ultimate Father, who offers tender love and compassion, even when we fail. His call to men is to reject harmful societal norms of fatherhood and embrace a legacy of love, patience, and moral integrity. The scripture from Ephesians 6:4 reminds fathers to nurture their children tenderly, reflecting God’s gentle correction and unwavering presence.

This Father’s Day, let’s break the cycle of dysfunction. Let’s redefine fatherhood by becoming men who honor their words, show up with love, and create stability for future generations. Through God’s wisdom, men can lead with compassion and humility, leaving a lasting legacy of strength and integrity.

“A gentle father shows his strength in patience, love, and understanding.”

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I Lost It All……But Found Myself

Fatherhood holds a profound influence, yet the experience of having a father varies greatly. Some have never known their fathers, while others have had inconsistent or emotionally distant relationships. These broken bonds can lead to resentment, acceptance of dysfunction, or simply a resigned “it is what it is” attitude.

However, true fatherhood is modeled by God, the ultimate Father, who offers tender love and compassion, even when we fail. His call to men is to reject harmful societal norms of fatherhood and embrace a legacy of love, patience, and moral integrity. The scripture from Ephesians 6:4 reminds fathers to nurture their children tenderly, reflecting God’s gentle correction and unwavering presence.

This Father’s Day, let’s break the cycle of dysfunction. Let’s redefine fatherhood by becoming men who honor their words, show up with love, and create stability for future generations. Through God’s wisdom, men can lead with compassion and humility, leaving a lasting legacy of strength and integrity.

“A gentle father shows his strength in patience, love, and understanding.”

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Gentleness of A Father

Fatherhood holds a profound influence, yet the experience of having a father varies greatly. Some have never known their fathers, while others have had inconsistent or emotionally distant relationships. These broken bonds can lead to resentment, acceptance of dysfunction, or simply a resigned “it is what it is” attitude.

However, true fatherhood is modeled by God, the ultimate Father, who offers tender love and compassion, even when we fail. His call to men is to reject harmful societal norms of fatherhood and embrace a legacy of love, patience, and moral integrity. The scripture from Ephesians 6:4 reminds fathers to nurture their children tenderly, reflecting God’s gentle correction and unwavering presence.

This Father’s Day, let’s break the cycle of dysfunction. Let’s redefine fatherhood by becoming men who honor their words, show up with love, and create stability for future generations. Through God’s wisdom, men can lead with compassion and humility, leaving a lasting legacy of strength and integrity.

“A gentle father shows his strength in patience, love, and understanding.”

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The Truthful Tales of a Vulnerable Father

Growing up without a father, I knew I wanted to change that for my own children. I believed that simply being present would be enough, but I soon realized that my unresolved emotional issues and past mistakes were hindrances to my parenting. Through honest conversations with my kids about my struggles with shame, addiction, and defiance, I discovered the power of transparency. By sharing my imperfections and grounding our discussions in faith, I was able to build a stronger bond with my children and equip them with the wisdom to face life’s challenges with the spirit over the flesh. Fatherhood is not just about being there—it’s about being real and guiding our children with honesty, love, and faith.

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Father Figures Beyond Biology: The Courage to Care

Fatherhood goes beyond the traditional roles of providing for a family. Fathers, whether biological or not, are vital figures in a child’s life, offering emotional support, guidance, and protection. The absence of a father figure can lead to various challenges, from behavioral issues to feelings of abandonment. Fathers not only contribute to the physical well-being of their children but also shape their emotional and social development. This June, we celebrate all fathers, honoring their courage, strength, and dedication to being there for their children, no matter the circumstance. Fathers truly deserve to be admired and appreciated for their invaluable role.

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R.E.S.P.E.C.T …but what if he doesn’t deserve that from me?

Fatherhood holds immense influence in shaping lives, whether through acts of provision, protection, or guidance. While many fathers embody honor and integrity, some may fall short of this ideal. Yet, the call to honor fathers transcends personal flaws, aligning with a higher divine order. As seen in the biblical story of David and King Saul, honoring the position, even in challenging circumstances, reflects respect for God’s authority. This Father’s Day, let’s celebrate the fathers who lead with strength and wisdom while recognizing the value of respecting the role of fatherhood as part of a greater purpose.

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