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Fear Not: Deflection & the Fear of Accountability

Deflection and the fear of accountability often go hand in hand, as avoiding responsibility can feel less threatening than facing uncomfortable truths. Overcoming this fear requires introspection, honesty, and self-awareness. By embracing acceptance, taking ownership of our actions, and reflecting on our thoughts and behaviors, we can break free from deflection. Practicing empathy, seeking feedback, and staying present in challenging situations helps us confront our fears and grow personally. Consistently applying these steps cultivates a mindset of accountability, which is essential for authentic self-growth and building meaningful relationships with others.

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Limitless Living: Embracing Godly Boundaries

In a world where relationships often struggle due to unspoken expectations, one crucial element stands out: boundaries. Through reflection and growth, I’ve come to realize the importance of setting clear, respectful boundaries in every aspect of life, especially in marriage. I now understand that boundaries are not just rules but acts of love, care, and respect. As the head of the household, it is my responsibility to set these boundaries, seeking guidance from God and His Word to ensure they align with His will. By doing so, I not only strengthen my relationship with my wife but also create a peaceful, orderly home that honors both God and the love we share. This journey of repentance, forgiveness, and transformation has shown me the power of living within the structure of godly boundaries, and the peace that follows is immeasurable. I encourage all men to step up, seek God’s direction, and set boundaries that empower your family to thrive in faith, love, and abundance.

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Cultural Continuity: The Power of Boundaries in Armenian Christian Tradition

In the heart of Armenian culture, where faith, tradition, and community intertwine, the practice of setting boundaries has always been a cornerstone of both personal and familial life. With Christianity as the foundation of our national identity, Armenian households became sanctuaries of spiritual devotion, where the teachings of Christ were passed down from generation to generation. Parents instilled in their children the understanding that the home is a sacred space—one that must be protected through clear boundaries that reflect love, compassion, and respect for others. Just as Jesus Christ exemplified the importance of setting boundaries while maintaining empathy and selflessness, Armenian parents taught that the boundaries within our homes should protect our values and promote kindness, humility, and service to others. These boundaries are not only essential for personal well-being but also serve to preserve cultural identity and continuity across generations. In a world where cultural assimilation threatens our ancestral heritage, these boundaries help keep the richness of our Armenian and Black roots alive, ensuring that we pass down a legacy of faith, love, and integrity to our children.

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Fixing My Commitment Compass

Growing up, I’ve always been a bubbly, outgoing girl who loves having fun and trying new things. But something happened recently that made me take a hard look at my life and the decisions I’ve been making. My teacher pulled me aside one day and pointed out that I had a habit of starting things and never finishing them. I’d get super excited about a new project or hobby, but then I’d lose interest and move on to something else. She told me this lack of commitment was holding me back.

At first, I didn’t want to hear it. But then I realized something: I was doing exactly what I saw my parents doing. My parents are great, but they often struggle with commitment. They’d start diets and quit, or make big plans and never follow through. It was like a light bulb went off in my head. I was picking up the same habits that I didn’t like seeing in them!

That realization was a game-changer for me. I knew I had to change these habits immediately if I didn’t want to bring them into my future. I want to be someone my kids can look up to one day, and I don’t want them to struggle with commitment like I did.

Even if we don’t have the best examples at home, it’s crucial for us kids to understand the importance of commitment. We need to learn to stay dedicated to our goals and responsibilities. This will help us build trust and achieve our dreams. Commitment is the key to becoming reliable and successful in whatever we choose to do.

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Mirror of Personal Growth

Marriage, as designed by God, is meant to reflect the profound relationship between Christ and the church. It serves as a mirror, helping us see both the beauty and flaws within ourselves through the eyes of our spouse. In the unity and intimacy of marriage, we are challenged to embrace reflection rather than deflection. By accepting our spouse’s input and recognizing them as a powerful resource for growth, we learn to adjust, improve, and strengthen our relationship. Though uncomfortable at times, this process of self-awareness and change is essential to deepening our connection and fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage.

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